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How to Not Care What People Think of You

Practical Advice Included

So this is some advice that I do not to care about what poeple think of you.

Strangers:

  1. Imagine you are a middle class worker in a kingdom. When you are inside the kingdom walls, a traveler comes from a distant land that you know is not a threat to you at all or anyone in the kingdom, because they are powerless. If he thought anything bad about you would you care? No.

  2. This is the same thing about life today. Just believe that if some strangers did not like you or thought you were weird, would that affect your day-to-day life? No. This should automatically make your brain less likely to care about what other think of you.

  3. They other knowledge you should know is that most people have their own worries that they will forget about you before the day ends.

So the practical exercise is remember point 3 and start doing point 2. See how this changes how you care about what others think. When you are doing this, start slowly, and do small things, and with the results, you can slowly move to bigger actions that you won’t do because people care about you. The results will boost your confidence.

Friends

  1. This one is harder. The best way to do it is to choose friends that are like you, or hide some of you.

  2. If you care about what friends think, don’t tell them, because it can get hard if they do make fun of you.